When a guy is not chasing you back through the strategies that I teach, that doesn’t mean to do more. Look, some people will only have you in their life as long as they could disrespect you. Some people will only be in your life as long as you don’t stand up for yourself. What you got to do is LET THEM GO.
When a guy is not chasing you back, what they’re trying to say is “You’re either my bitch or you’re nothing.”
Some people will only have you in their life under those circumstances so when a guy is not chasing you back, you just have to do less. Don’t do more when he’s doing less.
The solution is very simple: with men, less is more. I’m not saying don’t show him interest (because some of you, ladies, go too far with this and some of you don’t even act like you like the guy)! When a guy is not really putting in the effort and you applied the tactics that I teach you, it doesn’t mean that the tactics don’t work. It’s just that that’s how things are.
The more you chase a guy who doesn’t want you, you’re screwing your psychology for future relationships. By over-pursuing a guy who doesn’t want you, you’re pretty much screwing yourself up where you’re not gonna know what it is to have a good or bad relationship because you’re used to chasing people who don’t want you.
Stop chasing him because the more you chase a guy who doesn’t want you, the more you’re gonna get used to that and that’s not something you wanna get used to. It’s gonna develop a lot of self-hate and a lot of shame. It’s not worth it. If he doesn’t like you, just accept it. It doesn’t mean that the tactics don’t work, it doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with you. It just means it wasn’t it and that’s okay.